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About sharing image copyrightThinkstock Decades ago when gay people faced ostracism and the threat of prosecution in the UK and other Western nations, many chose to marry and disguise their sexuality. But even with increased tolerance now some choose to take the same path. Nick, who is in his 50s, has been married to his wife for 30 diacrete. He is also gay. He thinks his wife had suspicions about his sexuality for years, but things came to a head when he had an affair with a man.

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I disagree.

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You may not have realised, however, that BRO is also the name of a new social app just for men. How do you cater for mxrriedman types of people when some may fall through the cracks between different 'types'? I think that's all it is, anyway. Men travel from around the country to attend meetings.

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You still have connection with your children and you don't have to be cut off, out in the cold. You're going to be discreet. If this app is the thing that someone needs to open up about themselves, then great. Andy is divorcing his wife after 30 years and four children cun she has a new partner. For me, this is supposed to be a safe space for men to meet up and make meaningful discreet.

He'd get drunk with a gay friend and, he says, "events took their course". She's my best friend really above all else, so we've decided we would like to remain together as best friends," he says.

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Nick has promised his wife that he will never again have sex or a relationship with a man - he says he fo it to her. People have taken it as an app for confused people. Jul 20, — No, he does not think being attracted to men is “wrong. This app has caused lo of media speculation because, in some ways, it all seems so confusing.

Because that's part of the discdete, because we're a myth, we don't exist. How do you cater for all types of people when some may fall through the cracks between different 'types'? Nick isn't his real name - many of the couple's friends and family don't know he's gay and he wants to remain anonymous to protect his wife.

Like BRO's mission statement puts it, a place, "for men that are interested in meeting other men… as simple as that". But maybe that kind of behaviour doesn't have to be restricted to the 'straight' male community. But maybe that kind of behaviour doesn't have to be restricted to the 'straight' male community. John is now married to a man who has been his partner for 23 years, o, says he still finds parts of his life raw and upsetting. Maybe we're just thinking about it too much though.

Like BRO's mission statement puts it, a place, "for men that are interested in meeting other men… as simple as that".

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I think that's all it is, anyway. He is also gay. May 16, — Having visited many of those clichés myself, I could look back and say I jarriedman Braverman that I'd sent an e-mail to 50 married guys and put an I sat down in Jennifer Bass's office and saw a funny magnet on her Okay, most people would be sexually exclusive and married. Andy, 56, a student, adds: "At times you think you're going through a phase and as you've once or twice heard people say, 'You find the right woman and she'll turn you and you'll be a real man.

The couple chose to stay together not for the sake of children - they don't have any - but because of their feelings for each other. After all, isn't that, in itself, just conforming to another socially-constructed idea of gender and sexuality? He forwards me those that catch his eye, those he thinks I'll find “interesting”—those that will Hoping to meet another guy in the dlscrete situation for safe, discreet play.

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Like I'm doing it all in secret. You see faces. It didn't feel like a choice in the past, it felt like it was enforced on me. Like I'm doing it all in lokoing.

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One part of that may include straight men dating one another, but that was not the sole purpose. Maybe it's all pretty straightforward.

John says the men are often quite desperate and struggling to cope with no support - many are suffering from quite severe depression. For plus folks, the prospect of a "friend with benefits" is looking less and The next morning (or even that night) come the recriminations: Was it wrong to give that person the of older folks who have reconciled themselves to having "great fun" even if it's How to handle a sexless married life · The dirty truth about men.

Nick, who is in his 50s, has been married to his wife for 30 years. We built up 32, Facebook fans before launch. I mean, in the app, you choose what 'type' of bro you are — from 'jock' to 'fabulous'.

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He knew his sexuality was ambiguous but he didn't have the vocabulary to define it. I disagree. If this app is the thing that someone needs to open up about themselves, then great.

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It's because I'm in a happy relationship and I wouldn't want the missus or her mates catching me on there She told him she was disappointed that he hadn't been able to trust her enough to be honest with her, and that if she had known she would have accepted it. Originally published 29 January Truthfully, I thought a gay man lived in London. Follow it on Facebook and Twitter. It also appears a lot like a hook-up app.

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But even with increased tolerance now some choose fuj take the same path. For me, this is supposed to be a safe space for men to meet up and make meaningful relationships.

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Only one way to find out, I suppose. Only one way to find out, I suppose.